Sunday, October 31, 2010

Pictures of Life

This past week has been fun. The kids were home for most of the week due to parent-teacher conferences, so we had a lot of time to spend together.
The girls and I had a crazy hair day.Isaiah figured out how he could better communicate that he was ready to eat! He has started setting the table when I am cooking.
The older kids had fun spending more time with Isaiah. They were great helps in entertaining him!

Friday night, we got all dressed up to go to the Fall Festival at River. Aren't all of our Ethiopians adorable?!Then Gram took the older three to the corn maze.
These things are a lot tougher than you might imagine! :)
Each day seems to be easier and easier with Isaiah. He really does seem like a normal kid. He has woken up a few times at night this week, but he is getting about a tooth a night, so I guess I can't blame him. :) Like I said, he seems pretty normal. We have pretty much slipped back into "normal life" already. I think we have had a very quick adjustment. I don't want to give the impression that everything has been seamless (I will post about some of the tough things soon), but we have been home only five weeks. Considering this, it really has been a very smooth transition.

Thank you, everyone, who has been praying for us. I know that is the reason things have gone so well.

Sunday, October 24, 2010

Getting Settled

Here is a quick overview of our past month. In some ways, the month went so quickly. In others, it seems like we have been home for a year vs. a month. Lots of runny noses and colds this month, but even buggery noses are sweet!

Isaiah LOVES to play in the dirt.
Hanging out with Sydney
Isaiah having fun wrestling with Jackson
Getting a pumpkin at the pumpkin patch with Raegan
Hanging out in the Ergo. (Note: This has been the greatest carrier. I tried the wrap, and Isaiah just didn't seem to "fit". It was tough for me to carry him on my front, so this has been a great alternative. When he needs to be near me, I can still get things done like cook supper, vacuum, clean bathrooms, fold laundry, etc! If you are adopting an older baby--over a year--I would encourage you to at least check this out.)
More dirt!Lots of my sweet friends threw me a baby shower this past month. My camera battery was dead, so I only have this picture. (If any of you have any pics, can you e-mail them to me?) This was such a sweet, sweet day for me. It was one of the most meaningful baby showers I have ever been to, and I was so encouraged and blessed.
The serious look. I just love this face.
First taste of Gambinos with Uncle Marc and Aunt KatyCarving Jack-o-lanturns!

Bedtime stories. That's it for now!

First Family Moments with Isaiah and Saying Goodbye to Aunt Melli

I can't reiterate how good it was to be home. While we were in Ethiopia, it was difficult to know how much to start establishing our own routines. We pretty much decided to just wait until we got home for most of that. So, when we arrived home, it felt like we could finally start being Isaiah's Mommy and Daddy.

The kids were so excited to have him home--finally! They have been praying and waiting with us for almost two years which is a long time for kids who are 10 years and younger. This is a significant percent of their lives! I heard that Raegan became an expert balloon-blower-upper as they worked to decorate our house. :)
Sydney made pancakes for our first morning home.
Isaiah's first breakfast!
I wish I had taken more pictures of those first days; however, it was just a little crazy. We were all adjusting to having another member of the family. So, lots of pictures didn't get taken! Here are a few I have:
During these days, I was so fortunate to have my sister helping. She stayed for an extra week, and I was so thankful for her presence! She stepped in to help with the other three kids, and she was my constant encourager during this time of crazy transition. I will blog about this more later, but I will say that I was so sad to have her leave. She is a selfless aunt to my kids--and all her nieces and nephews--and we are so blessed to have her in our lives. It is hard to have her live so far away --in Alaska!--but we are also blessed because when she comes, it is for chunks of quality time. As a quality time person, I love that!
So yes. The day quickly came when I had to say goodbye to my little sister. In a way, I hated that she had to be around me during a tough time. I wasn't a lot of fun, and there was a lot of hard stuff that she had to witness. At the same time, I was selfishly thankful that she was there because she truly helped me through each of those tough transitions. I'm so thankful that I could be real--and not always so pretty--and she still loved and encouraged me.
I love her so, and I am so glad she already has plane tickets to come back in December!

Sunday, October 17, 2010

Thursday: Wrapping up in Ethiopia

Thursday came, and we were excited to be able to pack our bags and head home. In the morning, we did take one quick excursion to the ALERT Leper colony again. Our friend, Kristy, wanted to buy some souvenirs for her other children, and we hadn't had a chance to do that so far. So, we headed to the colony since it was pretty low-key and not crowded. I mentioned after our last trip how I loved this place. I love that I was able to buy items made by those who live with leprosy in that colony. And, the prices were so reasonable. And, I didn't have to bargain for them! Yeah. So, we headed there. I was so excited to find wooden coffee sets, another woven rug, and a Christmas ornament for Isaiah. If you are going to Ethiopia, I highly recommend going to ALERT.
Here is Chris, Isaiah, and Neb (our driver) just outside of the shop by some coffee plants.
Here is a study in contrasts, similar to what we saw over and over in the city. One minute, we would see donkeys walking down the sidewalk. . .
. . .the next minute, it looked like a scene from modern-day U.S. It just never got old to see.

After that, we headed back to the guest house for lunch. Have I mentioned anything about the food? This trip, we did not lose any weight! The food was great at the guest house, and we ate most of our meals there. So, if you are going to stay at Ethiopia Guest Home, know that they prepare pretty good meals that are safe for us.
Juice mustache!
Oh, and Isaiah ate what we ate. He was just over 16 months, and they had plenty of good food for him. One night, he was really hungry before supper was ready, so they even made him some scrambled eggs. They are so accommodating!

After lunch, we started packing, and I had my complimentary massage. Again, I highly recommend that you take advantage of this perk if you can. Before we could leave, the guest house performed our last coffee ceremony. Here is the lady roasting the coffee beans before making coffee. As you can see, pop corn is traditionally served with the coffee.
Here is Kristy with her two kiddos. It was so encouraging and helpful to have her at the guest house with us! She is an experienced adoptive mom (these are #9 & 10!), so her insight and encouragement was much appreciated! Chris and I were so glad to spend these days with her, her dad, and her two three-year-olds.
Kristy and kiddos waiting for our ride to the airport.
After supper, we were off! We headed to the airport with Kristy and her crew. We did not bring enough toys, so Isaiah entertained himself with our water bottles!
We were excited to know that we had a seat with a baby bassinet, so we thought Isaiah would sleep so well. Well, we got on the airplane around 11:00 p.m. Once we finally took off, it was late, so he fell asleep right away on Chris. (He hadn't really liked the bassinet, so Chris was just holding him. Unfortunately, a well-meaning African lady thought that Isaiah should be sleeping in the bassinet, so she came over and took Isaiah out of Chris's arms. We had been dozing already, so we weren't sure what was happening at first. By the time we came to, Isaiah was wide awake, scared, and quickly escalating into one of his major fits! He continued to scream for about 30 minutes, enraging most of the other passengers around us. We were flustered and extremely frustrated. Finally, I got up to walk him around, and he eventually fell back asleep. This all happened within the first hour of flight, so we were wound up and very anxious. The rest of the 16 hour flight was long and exhausting, so we were so relieved to finally reach U.S. soil.Sleeping soundly in Daddy's arms. . . for a while!

In Chicago, we did take a quick detour to the outside of the airport security to see Chris's brother, Shaun, and his wife, Kathy.
They brought us lunch, and we were able to introduce them to Isaiah. We were so excited to see familiar faces--and eat yummy food! We almost missed our last flight home; luckily, we found a short security line and made it in the nick of time. Whew!

The last flight home was tough. Isaiah was done, so he screamed/threw a fit for about 30 minutes of the hour home. Again, we were just relieved to get to Wichita.

We were blessed by a crowd of people who came to welcome us. I didn't have my camera out, so I have to borrow some pics from friends!Introducing Isaiah to the kids first.
Happy Tears!
Adding a crowd as we got closer. . .
Lots of introductions!
We were so excited to be home and introduce Isaiah to so many friends and family who have walked with us over the past two years. It was so fun to come home to such open arms!